Our hero, a late 30s-something dad of two tries to remember those things he wishes he'd said.
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Friday, June 26, 2009
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Futurama News

A spokesperson for 20th Century Fox Television confirms that the cable net has ordered 26 new episodes of Matt Groening and David X. Cohen's late, great animated series to air beginning in 2010. The studio cites Futurama's "blockbuster" performance on DVD and in reruns on Comedy Central as the reason for its rebirth.
Hmmm... sound familiar?
"When we brought back Family Guy several years ago, everyone said that it was a once in a lifetime thing -- that canceled series stay canceled and cannot be revived," 20th Century Fox TV Chairmen Gary Newman and Dana Walden said in a joint statement. "But Futurama was another series that fans simply demanded we bring back, and we couldn’t have been happier when Matt and David agreed that there were many more stories yet to tell."
Adds Groening: "We’re thrilled Futurama is coming back. We now have only 25,766 episodes to make before we catch up with Bender and Fry in the year 3000."
I have a hunch Groening isn't the only one doing a happy dance. (That's your cue to start filling up the comments section.)
Futurama is one of the funniest comedies on TV. This is good news for anyone who appreciates well-written TV. We can watch Futurama episodes over and over again and still laugh, a lot.
Tuesday, June 09, 2009
Monday, June 08, 2009
End of a Playhouse
As any of you who ever visited our house know, the log playhouse in our backyard came with the house and was a pretty distinctive feature of our yard. No more, faithful readers... Playhouse no more...
Here's what it looked like:
Does it look like it was leaning to you? Here’s a different angle:
Maybe this will help:
With my father-in-law’s help, chainsaw, maul, and pick up truck, we tore down what had become a potential hazard and eyesore. Once the supporting poles started to rot, the whole structure has been doomed. The truth be told, the three hours of quality time with a 15 pound maul was the healthiest morning I’ve had in a while. :-)
There’s only another truckload of debris left. While doing real work, its not cool to stand there with a camera. It gets in the way of the 15 pound maul. That said, I snapped a new pic with my new (crappy) phone:
Good bye old friend.
B.
Wednesday, June 03, 2009
Tiananmen Square Memories
An event twenty years ago tomorrow shaped my view of the world. The ill-named People’s Liberation Army massacred an indeterminate number of student protesters.
I’ll skip the long-winded reflections about why they were protesting and the change that they so desperately wanted to see. What sticks with me is that people my age or a little older believed in some of the same things I did and they were slaughtered for it. Their government chose to protect itself rather than them. This has been the single biggest reason I think as much as I do about the role of government in a society. It’s either for itself or for the betterment of its citizens. The rule of law helps, but it’s really one or the other when you get down to the essence of society.
Incidentally, June 1989 was also the month I graduated from high school. This event, live in my living room, added to my whole coming of age experience. It didn’t ruin the month, but it was a sobering aspect of the whole time for many of us.
B.
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Last Tiananmen 'hooligan' freed [from the BBC]
China has reportedly freed the last activist still jailed for "hooliganism" relating to the Tiananmen Square democracy movement of 1989. Liu Zhihua was freed in January, but news of his release has only now been confirmed, according to the Dui Hua Foundation, a US-based pressure group.
Mr Liu had been jailed for life for leading a strike at a factory.
His reported release comes two weeks before the 20th anniversary of the Tiananmen protests.
The events on June 1989 are still considered a highly sensitive topic by China's Communist authorities, and the anniversary is unlikely to be publicly marked in mainland China.
Inciting crowds Mr Liu was one of several workers who were given long jail sentences for organising industrial strikes.
According to Dui Hua, he was accused of inciting crowds with anti-government speeches.
The strikes were linked to weeks of student-led pro-democracy protests in the spring of 1989.
Six weeks into the protests, tanks and troops were sent in. Hundreds - possibly thousands - of people are believed to have been killed, but the government has never allowed for a full accounting of the events.
Story from BBC NEWS:http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/2/hi/asia-pacific/8057624.stmPublished: 2009/05/19 12:57:29 GMT© BBC MMIX
Monday, May 18, 2009
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Pre-Kindergarten Class Homework May 2009

There is a mascot in Super Girl's pre-kindergarten\kindergarten class. "Mister Bear" comes with a bag containing a blanket, his toothbrush, a pillow, and his teddy bear. The assignment that comes with him involves doing stuff with him and writing in "his" journal about his evening.
This is Super Girl's latest Mr. Bear story. It reads as follows.
"I pulled Mr. Bear in the wagon. I pushed Mr. Bear in my baby swing."
Not bad for five (and no meddling parental help).
B.
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Terminator/John Connor(s)
Monday, May 11, 2009
Saturday, May 09, 2009
Sleep Over Adventures This Weekend
On a less positive side, we were up at 6:25 on a Saturday... Its better than the last one our eight year old had, they were "up" (to stay, they claimed at 2:30AM).
B.
Wednesday, May 06, 2009
R2D2 Soap 1


Found in my parent's basement... I have a few boxes of weird old stuff still in my parent's basement, fifteen years after I last lived there. A recent discovery in one of those boxes was this Star Wars soap. R2D2 is made of hard plastic, BUT you have to use the soap to get him to play with... Tricky! B.
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Last weekend's scorecard
Friday, April 10, 2009
Excellent Photo Essay on Afghanistan
http://www.boston.com/bigpicture/2009/04/recent_scenes_from_afghanistan.html
B.
Thursday, April 02, 2009
Is this for Real?
Wednesday, April 01, 2009
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Saturday, March 21, 2009
Missed Opportunity: "Will Canada Arrest George W Bush For Torture?"
Friday, March 20, 2009
BSG Finale Thoughts
B.
11:12PM Wow... that is not how I thought the war would end on BSG...
11:57PM Okay its over, allllllll ooooooooover. Bizarre but tasty!
B.
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Lost: Season 5 Ep. 9 "Namaste"
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UN Battlestar Galactica Conference
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http://www.un.org/apps/news/story.asp?NewsID=30217&Cr=television&Cr1=
http://popwatch.ew.com/popwatch/2009/03/galactica-un.html
Best Part of March Break?
We're going to see the Tale of Desperaux this pm. A dollar an hour? Seriously, people... :-)
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Chronology of an Eight Year-Old Sleep Over
3:15 PM
First friend arrives with Super Girl. They have both been at birthday party.
4:30 PM
Second friend arrives. Trio appears to be getting along well, despite the fact that nature abhors trios. Playing and singing of most songs from Mamma Mia ensues
5:00 PM
The girls have a "spray fight" with a bottle of Febreeze air freshener. They use the whole bottle. I start to have an asthmatic reaction which peaks at about 4:30 the next morning despite over-dosing on my Ventolin inhaler.
5:30PM
Supper- hamburger wraps. More singing.
6:30PM
Movie starts- Chronicles of Narnia: Prince Caspian (the girls' choice). Snacks and the ritualized wearing of extra underwear on their heads ensue. Fumes are bad but don't seem to bother anyone else.
7:45PM
Orange pop and vanilla ice cream floats are a hit.
9:00PM
A bed time of sorts. Air mattress and flip out kids' chesterfield are used in a dizzying array of all possible combinations of girls pillows and blankets. The girls settle on The Beatles' Abbey Road. Deep down I am bursting with pride at this classy choice even as my lungs feel like they may burst.
9:15PM
The first of many, many, many "Now its time to quiet down and go to sleep" speeches. The girls are VERY well-behaved, but very wound-up...
10:30PM
Girls are finally asleep. I am more choked up than ever. Not bad...
1:25AM
My breathing has calmed enough that sleep is a good and possible idea.
1:26AM
Super Girl (age 5) is awake and says she thinks that she is going to be sick. Happily she is not but she does have a fever (and has had one on and off most of the evening).
3:45AM
The girls are awake and noisy. Happy, but noisy. I go downstairs and lay down the law about how they are not to be up before 6:00AM. They don't settle for a while and I end up on the downstairs love seat for the better part of an hour.
7:30AM
Sound of cartoons come from downstairs. We don't know this for a while, but one girl called her parents at 7AM to announce that she had made it through the night. Over breakfast of chocolate chip pancakes, the girls claim to never gone back sleep since 3:30AM. After breakfast, the girls pick Star Wars III as their movie of choice, followed by craft time and pick up by their respective moms.
Phew,
B.
Updatey Post
As you may have noticed, I haven't been a very faithful writer lately. This is due to several reasons.
- I've just been very busy at home and at work.
- I've been in a very funny headspace lately. Basically, I'm having trouble letting things go at work. This is far from being a terminal condition, but things seem to be getting to me more than they have in a long while. Its that and and the fact that I'm really, really tired of my work. All of that is tied to some lingering feelings I have over the job I lost a year ago- yeah I know I need to let that go.
- Also, I guess I'm not sure what I should write about.
All of that self-obsessed musing aside, life is good. Its great, actually. The four of us are happy and healthy and I'm still fascinated by how the girls are growing every day. Grade two and kindergarten are going well and the girls have solid wonderful friends. And, soon it will be spring! I've tried, but I'm still not a winter person.
All for now,
B.
Thursday, March 05, 2009
E-Bay Item of the Week: Big-Ass Zombie-Smashing Truck
Monday, February 16, 2009
Birthday Cake Jan. 2009

Birthday Cake Jan. 2009
Originally uploaded by Binky's Photos
Only Sponge Bob would do for Action Girl's 8th Birthday Party!
We had it at the pool and it was a wet and wonderful success. She has a wonderful group of not-so-little-anymore friends.
B.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Big Enough For...
We had a little overnight get away with Action Girl's (now age 8!) best friend and her parents and little brother (who is only an little younger than our Super Girl).
The whole "going on rides alone" thing may sound like a small point, but its not. It’s a very big deal, What's more its an even bigger sign of things to come.
B.
Thursday, February 05, 2009
Unexpected Daddy Day of Galactic Proportions
If you're in the later group (or neither), let me introduce to the exciting world of "family leave" days. Or, "my kid is sick and I can't go to work days."
Rules/The Finer Points of Family Leave:
1) An eight year old child cannot, no matter how smart and charming she is, stay home alone when sick. Don't laugh- it does come to mind every time.
2) Kids throwing up is bad. It is much better than fever. Throwing up while they have a fever is worse still. Worst of all is trying to figure out IF your child has a fever. If she does, somehow this makes you a bad parent. No, that's not rational- it just does.
3) The secret to manging a successful sick day appears to lie in balancing TV and sleep.
4) Call work. If nothing else, this will make you look very conscientious.
5) Somehow sick days can be wonderful day of daddy-daughter bonding. Caring for someone you love can never be anything but great even when its unexpected.
6) Having your eight year old pick Star Wars I: The Phantom Menace as her sick day movie choice rocks. It really is a great kids movie.
B.
Wednesday, February 04, 2009
My Random Wikipedia Quote of the Night:
"Bolik and ZIB Bolik (Болик) ran away just days before her flight in September 1951. A replacement named ZIB (a Russian acronym for "Substitute for Missing Bolik", "Замена исчезнувшему Болику" Zamena ischeznuvshemu Boliku), who was an untrained street dog found running around the barracks, was quickly located and made a successful flight. [edit]Otvazhnaya and Snezhinka Otvazhnaya (Отважная, "Brave One") made a flight on July 2, 1959 along with a rabbit named Marfusha (Марфуша, "Little Martha") and another dog named Snezhinka (Снежинка, "Snowflake"). She went on to make 5 other flights between 1959 and 1960."
I offer this to you because couldn't we all stand to know a whole lot more about "Soviet Space Dogs?"
B.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Remeber this? Its back.
I bought this blast from the past at Zellers last Staurday night. It wasn't in a case full of different flavours like I remember when I was a kid, but a few different flavours were availible.
Anyone else remember the cases of Pop Shop Pop?
B.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Christmas Pics 5 (Finally!)

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Originally uploaded by Binky's Photos
This was Action Girl's main Santa Present. Her name is Jenna and she is a Maple Lea Girl.
B.
Christmas Pics 4 (Finally!)

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Originally uploaded by Binky's Photos
Here's proof he came...
The carrot was for Rudolph...
B.
Friday, January 02, 2009
Battlestar Galactica 4.5 Webisodes 4-7 "The Face of the Enemy, Part 4-7"
Webisode #1
Webisode #2
Webisode #3
And, here are the next four.
#4
#5
#6
#7
New Blog I'm Following: Dawn and Joe's Excellent Adventure
http://dawnandjoesexcellentadventure.blogspot.com/
B.
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
All Ready!
Merry Christmas to all of you out there. May your Christmas be as magical as mine!
B.
Monday, December 22, 2008
Storm Day!
:-)
B.
Thursday, December 18, 2008
New Battlestar Galactica Content! -- BSG 4.5 Webisode 001
Battlestar Galactica Season 4.5 Webisode 001 - The Face of the Enemy
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Decision Made
Basically, I was faced with staying in my present position or moving back to a different job in our system, doing very different work. I had this job from January 2007-March 2008 (but was unable to get it permanently due to a really crappy, half-arsed interview I did- never assume you have a job "in the bag," kids).
The issues for me seemed to come down to the prospects of returning to a more glamorous job with slightly less pay as the bottom guy on the org chart. Or, I could continue where I am (and have been since 2001) given progressively more specialization, responsibility and leadership.
I'm staying put. I feel pretty good about this decision. After thinking about it until my head hurt and getting no where but a continuous set of flip flips back and forth, I had to go with my gut. I'm pushing forty and I need to continue on my path to be an expert in what I'm doing. I have a an utterly unique position in the province. No one else does exactly what I do and I'm doing new things all the time. I'm in a good spot to grow into a position of leadership in my team and my other option was to return to a place that had already rejected me. It was gratifying doing a decent interview this time- makes up for the humiliation I caused myself last time. But, I'm off (for now) to be an expert.
B.
Blogger's family confirms his arrest
Blogger's family confirms his arrest
The Globe and Mail Dec. 9, 2008
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Tuesday, December 09, 2008
Sunday, December 07, 2008
Unabahsed Cuba Bashing
1) Has reasonably good health care and education systems,
2) Is anti-American,
3) Is an affordable place to have to sun-cation in (if you're from the True North Strong and Free, not the True South Stronger but not so free), or
4) Was co-founded by Comrade Che.
As much as I disagree with 45 years of the American embargo, lets remember that even post-Castro, Cuba is a still in a state of Stalinist repression. If people have no ability to criticize their government, they have no ability to be protected from it. If they have no ability to be protected from it, it can do anything it wants to them. That's wrong.
Here's a story to remind us all that Cuba is far from a free or open society.
Read this article from the Globe and Mail "Cuba says blogger ran afoul of the law".
B.
Friday, December 05, 2008
News stories
"Firm makes one billionth mouse."
"Solar Taxi goes round the world"
Monday, December 01, 2008
What I'm Watching... (Dec. 1, 2008)
1) How I Met Your Mother: Still one of the funniest things on TV.
2) Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles. I know a few of you may think less of me for really liking this show, but this is one of the best dramas of the last few years. Its better than the three Terminator movies. Its a family drama about a family that's trying to stop the world from ending.
3) Season Two of Heroes: Yeah, I know- I'm waaaay behind and season two is not all that great, but I want to get caught up and watch season three.
4) House: It still rocks.
5) Bones: Its our new "watch it together" show. B.
New Car, Eight Months Later

New Car, Eight Months Later
Originally uploaded by Binky's Photos
So far, our Corolla has over 16,000 kms on it and no problems.
Its averaging 7.5 L/100 km or 37.66 miles to the gallon Imperial or 31.362 miles to the gallon U.S.
About 99.9% of the time I ecstatic that we bought a car and not the Mazda 5 "Microvan" that we also test drove. I'm always happy that we paid just a little bit extra and bought the LE trim with keyless entry, keyless ignition, wood trim, cruise control, and automatic climate control.
I think we'll get a brand new car every ten years, "whether we need it or not" :-)
B.
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Busy Week Past
I have a big decision to make (I think) about work. A while back I took a temporary position in a job and held it for about 15 months. I had decided to stay permanently and then under-performed in the job interview because I thought I had it "in the bag." You can guess what happened.
Now, six months later I've interviewed for that job again after six months spent back on the job I've held since 2001. Its been a happy time, but frustrating with respect to some things in the organization with which I disagree strongly. At the same time, I probably have more future opportunity where I am, organizational warts and all. If I'm offered the second job, I'm not sure what I should/will do.
Decisions, decisions...
B.
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Possible Outcomes of Madagascar 2
1) Mellman and Gloria struggle through years of a "physically" uncertain but ultimately happy relationship.
2) Giving in to the real reason for the tension between them, Marty and Alex struggle through years of a "physically" uncertain but ultimately happy relationship.
3) King Jullian thrives in Africa and Lemurs become the dominant species on the continent (through a weird Jullian-Penguin-Chimp Alliance). Stranded New Yorkers thrive and in time become number 2.
4) There will be a Madagascar 3...
B.
Thursday, November 06, 2008
Two Clans of Seven Year-Old Girls
That said, there are two categories of seven year-old girls. As a parent I have not come to this conclusion easily or without thought. Enough equivocation. The tow types are 1) Hannah Montana Fans, and 2) Sponge Bob Square Pants Fans.1) Hannah Montana Fans: Much more than being fans of Ms. Cyrus and her work, they are much more likely to have pierced ears, makeup, and large blond wigs. High black boots and matching clothes are common. They assume that everyone likes Hannah Montana just as much as they do, to the point of giving Hannah Montana wigs to other little girls as birthday presents (irrespective of which of the two types the recipient may be).2) Sponge Bob Fans: Much less likely to hold on to a con-temporized little girl look: clothes don't match as much, fewer pierced ears, far, far fewer dresses and skirts. They wear pretty brown and blues.
As you might have guessed, we have a Sponge Bob fan. She is happy and well-adjusted and doesn't like Hannah Montana, whom she thinks is silly. She likes the Beatles, the White Stripes, and once came to breakfast signing Paradise City by Guns 'n Roses.
Culture is a funny thing.
B.
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Another Sign of Obama's Landslide
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Shades of Grey: The Beach in Late Sept. 2008

Shades of Grey: The Beach in Late Sepetmber 2008
Originally uploaded by Binky's Photos
I usually don't think about grey being a beautiful colour until you see
a scene like this. Its hard to count how many different greys there are
in this picture.
B.
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Friday, October 17, 2008
Why Obama (Almost) Can't Lose...
Opinion polls are at best abstratct exercises in answering only the question of what people will answer when a pollster asks them a question. BUT- if you look at an aggrearate of results, time over time greater truth can be apparent.
The presidential polls in the U.S. show that Barack Obama has a near lock on the race. You can't possibly lose if poll, after poll says you have a lead and you are going to win. Barring the greatest of scandals and falls from grace he has this race locked. Look for yourself:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Opinion_polling_for_the_2008_United_States_presidential_election#Two-way_contest:_Barack_Obama_vs_John_McCain
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Federal Election Results Ruminations
VOTER TURN OUT:
Sunday, October 12, 2008
So... Another Minority Means What?
JEFFREY SIMPSON
From Thursday's Globe and Mail
October 8, 2008 at 10:39 PM EDT
Canada's party politics is fractured. The days of two strong national parties are over, certainly temporarily, perhaps forever.
The rise of the Greens and the apparent permanence of the Bloc Québécois reflect the splintering of politics on linguistic or single-issue lines, something dreaded by those who saw national parties as indispensable links in a pluralistic, geographically huge, linguistically split country...
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
Interesting Article about Sarah Palin
Personally, I think two things:
- Its obvious that this information brings into question her qualification to run as a VP or at least would be damaging if it was better known, but
- On the other hand, maybe someone who may not see herself as an American first running on the presidential ticket for one of the main two parties is a sign of progress for the U.S. In a country so committed to seeing itself in such monolithic terms. diversity of opinion, background, and identity couldn't hurt.
I shudder at any prospect of a McCain/Palin victory, but maybe there's a positive side to her candidacy other than just gender.
B.
Thursday, October 02, 2008
The Federal Election Sumarized
The Liberals may want my rifle,
The Tories may want my part of the social safety net,
The NDP may want me to pay more taxes,
The Greens may want my smog, and
The Bloc may not want anything from me.
B.
Monday, September 29, 2008
Super Girl's Terry Fox Run 2008
Thanks!!
Bruce
Hurricane Kyle - Part 3
Super Girl's (age 4.5) sleep over Friday night was more eventful than Kyle. It went very well, though. I don't say this frequently enough but- they are so cute at that age.
B.
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Hurricane Kyle Watch - Part 1
Here are the things I've done:
1) Bath tub full of water,
2) Candles, oil lamps, flashlight at the ready,
3) work done on down spout drains (involved gratuitous trips to Home Depot),
4) BBQ bungeed to the deck,
5) garbage cans bungeed to the side of the deck, and
6) cat inside.
So far so good.
B.
PS- I fully expect water in the basement, but I'm a little bit of a pessimist on the subject.
Friday, September 26, 2008
Coolest plane ever...
If you think I'm making this up, read the story at http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/7634927.stm
Its are and I want one.
Christmas and my birthday are coming,
B.
Thursday, September 11, 2008
First Pre-K Homework for Super Girl
September Falling
Skating is three days a week for Action Girl and will start in October for Super Girl (when it also goes down to two days a week for her big sister). Our new addition, Peggy, is a gentle but energetic cat. We're enjoying her a lot.
My work has been especially challenging and frustrating but things are okay. Super Mom is off to a running start with her work and says she has a great class again this year.
The remnants of Hurricane Hannah soaked a little bit of our basement but we are not yet ready to give up on the house yet. (I'm kidding- we still owe on the mortgage....). With two national elections underway, I am concerned I may just just explode.... But I'll do my best to manage. Its my SuperBowl...
The Canadian election should be interesting. Its had to imagine that the Liberals can close the gap with the Tories, but stranger things have have happened. The issue around the Green Party and the leader's debate has been interesting- the pressure is certainly on for Elizabeth May to wow people with her performance in the debate.
I may write more about this later, but I guess I feel like a little bit of a political orphan. No party membership yet and my process seems to be about deciding with whom I agree with the most and disagree with the least, or least seriously.
Hmmmm,
B.